An Old Hollywood Wedding...in Albany!

After planning a wedding last year, I find that I enjoy checking out all the nuances and details of the weddings we attend so much more than I did before we got married.  It takes a lot of time and effort to put together a wedding with a well thought out theme and decor.

I loved the old Hollywood theme at Ryan and Zamira's reception this past weekend.  Every detail was perfect.  Not only did the theme match their personality, but it was also so fun!

My favorite element was their guest book.  They had each person sign a champagne glass on the painting that will eventually adorn a wall of their home.  So neat!

And, of course, the photo booth is always fun.  They modernized it by including selfie sticks and props.  We managed to get a great shot with the fun backdrop!

Chris and I had a wonderful time celebrating the lovely couple.  The night was full of delicious food and fun times with friends.  A great way to end the busy month of August!

Andrea :)

#collaboreads: Set in Summertime

I found my book for this month's category via random google search, and I couldn't have been happier to have stumbled upon it!  I didn't have anything on my to-read list set in summertime so after a quick search I found a few options.  Cancel the Wedding is the debut novel for Carolyn T. Dingman.  The story follows Olivia's journey to discover her mother's past via a strange scattering of ashes request upon her premature death from cancer.  A summer road trip to the quaint Southern town where her mother was born and raised yet never visited as an adult allows Olivia to learn more than she ever dreamed.

RIVETING.

What part of the book could you NOT get enough of?

I absolutely did not want to put this book down.  The mix of mystery and romance woven throughout really had a tight grip on me.  The most intriguing part of the book dealt with the mystery surrounding why Olivia's mother, Jane, wanted her ashes scattered in two quite specific areas of Huntley.  On the surface, the novel appears to revolve around Olivia and her cold feet issues, but truly SO much more is going on here.  I was fully invested in uncovering the mystery of her mother's young life.  As the daughter of a lifelong genealogist, this story was right up my alley.

ELEMENTS.

How did you relate to/care for the characters?
What's your thought on the plot line and twists and turns?

As I mentioned, every aspect of the book that revolved around the life of Jane was fascinating to me.  The book begins with a prelude snapshot of a few hours of young Jane's life so the reader begins the novel at a bit of an advantage since Olivia knows absolutely nothing about her mother's past.  I really liked this element of the book because it allowed the reader to anticipate and make educated guesses about the way the story might go.  I did make a couple of correct guesses, but there were also several twists and turns that really kept me intrigued.  I deeply cared about the story line surrounding Jane and really liked the fact that two characters - Florence and Buddy - provided information, but also respected her privacy (even in death) to only answer direct questions.  This particular twist was both frustrating (as the reader just wanting to know everything right away) and brilliant (as the author allowing an opportunity to provide snapshots, but not give everything away all at once). 

ASSOCIATE.
What other books are like this one?
If none, did it remind you of a particular TV or movie with it's themes and characters?
Does it serendipitous-ly line-up with things going on in your life or the news right now? 

This novel was a story within a story where both stories were equally interesting and life changing for the main character.  On Goodreads, the book is compared to "Emily Giffin’s Southern charm and Jennifer Weiner’s compelling, emotionally resonant novels about the frustrations of blood ties".  I've never read Griffin, but I can see why she is compared to Weiner.  

As far as lining up serendipitous-ly with other things going on in my life, we do have seven wedding to attend this year so I guess you could say this is our year for all things wedding.  Thankfully, after this weekend, we only have two left in October!  And I thought the year we got married (last year!) would be our busiest! Ha! 

DESIGN.
You know you judged this book by the cover. What did you think of it? 
How did it relate to the contents of the novel? And the font and layout of the pages? 

I liked the design of the book.  It is simple, but really invokes the idea of journey.  The book begins with a summer road trip to Huntley, Georgia, so the cover is certainly fitting.  I like that the hood of the car is down and the sun is shining!  The other unique aspect of the novel was the opening prelude with a snippet of Jane's early life that I referenced earlier - great feature! 

STARS.  
How many out of five do you give this book?
Would you recommend this book to a friend?  

I give this book 5 out of 5 stars.  I would recommend it to anyone.  Well written story with an array of intriguing characters on a mission to discover the truth!  Can't beat that!

Andrea :)

Saturday States: Kentucky!!!

Kentucky

State Nickname: The Bluegrass State

Year of Family Trip: HOME!!
Bicentennial Tour of all Kentucky Counties from 1992-1996

Cities Visited: ALL!!

Can't Miss Tourist Attractions:
Floral Clock at State Capitol, My Old Kentucky Home in Bardstown, Churchill Downs in Louisville, Georgetown College, Old Hickory BBQ in Owensboro, UK Basketball at Rupp Arena, and the list goes on...

Each square represents one of the 120 Kentucky counties.

Take it from an expert, Kentucky is the BEST state in the country!  Honestly, even if I wasn't a born and bred Kentuckian, I'd still have to admit it is a pretty great state!  It's mostly peaceful and serene.  There are cities...a couple decent size ones...but mostly things are spread out.  I could probably talk forever about Kentucky and all the things to do there so today I'll focus on a few highlights.

A Bicentennial Tour: Kentucky Passport Style

Kentucky turned 200 years old in 1992.  We were young...me at age 8, Jordan at 7, and McKinley just shy of 2.  Mom and Dad decided to make a series of family road trips to collect Kentucky counties over the next few years.  There are 120 counties. We managed to cover them all by 1996.  There were even these fun Kentucky passports that allowed us to gain a stamp at various state park or historical sites.  We sure made some great memories on these trips throughout our state.

 

Jordan Falls

Our family has made more than one stop at Cumberland Falls over the years.  On a trip when we were a tad older - let's say at least high school age - Jordan provided us all with a memorable family moment.  There are several sets of stairs at Cumberland Falls.  And on one of these staircases Jordan, you guessed it, fell.  Hence Cumberland Falls will forever be known to the Heflin clan as Jordan Falls.  Before you start feeling too bad, let the record state that no one was hurt in the making of this memory...though Jordan probably wanted to hurt me after the new name was born!

"Rigamortis Has Set In"

My only word of advice about visiting Kentucky is be careful in that eastern region.  I grew up in western Kentucky, but spent my fair share of time in the central and northern parts throughout my collegiate years.  And even though I traveled back and forth from Georgetown to Richmond for my graduate courses at Eastern Kentucky University, I didn't really spend a ton of time in that eastern part of the state.  Now, those that grew up there might have a different story to tell, but here's mine.  Way back on one of those collecting KY counties trips in the early 90's, a highly impressionable moment occurred in the backwoods of eastern Kentucky.  We were driving along the crooked roads at a little more than a snail's pace when we noticed a dog in the yard up ahead.  Not just any dog though. This one was lying on its back.  With its legs straight up in the air.  And it wasn't moving.  As we approached, Dad said, "I think rigamortis has set in!"  Someone (maybe or maybe not me...I can't recall) suggested we pull over to get a photo.  I mean, it's not everyday you see something this crazy, right?  We needed evidence.  As we slowed to a stop, we noticed the dog had company.  On the porch sat a rugged old man with a shotgun by his side.  Um. Nevermind about that picture, Mom!!  Let's get the heck outta here!! 

Molly's (Do we really have to go again this year?) Ride

The Civil War re-enactment of The Battle of Sacramento is our home county's claim to fame.  Every May folks from far and wide convene on little ole McLean County to check out the settler's tents and see if the North or South will win the Battle.  At first, it was fun to go.  The kettle corn and cream soda were treats to look forward to each year.  And I always loved Molly's Ride as she went to notify the troops their opposition was near.  But then after year two...and year three...and year four...it lost a little appeal.  If you ever find yourself in McLean County around Battle time though, it's worth a peek for a first time viewer!

"I Love You, Dad"

Working Cincinnati Bengals camp during my undergraduate summers became routine while at Georgetown.  My family usually came up to visit at some point throughout camp.  After a few years of getting to know the coaches and players, I was quite comfortable around this bunch.  Among others, Chad Johnson was always one of my favorites.  And, in true Chad fashion, when I introduced him to my dad he exclaimed "Dad!  I Love You, Dad!" as he embraced and lifted Dad off the ground.  So...here's a family portrait of Dad with all his kids!

A Derby to Remember

The 136th running of the Kentucky Derby is the only one I'll never forget.  It was the year my friend Reba and I completed our own triple crown...and we kicked it off with my family at the Derby!  My dad and I have always enjoyed the track.  We've even won big a few times.  Ok, maybe it was just that once, but we have fun regardless.  The rest of my family wasn't super thrilled about the experience though I recall them enjoying the fried turkey legs!  But, I digress.  We arrived early, brought our chairs and set up shop in the only area that we could see even a sliver of the track.  We were all set.  Or so we thought.  As race after race went by, the infield became more and more crowded.  The day had already begun with a drizzle that turned into full out rain showers that pitter pattered into sunshine so we were prepared for anything.  And by anything I mean drunk frat boys that had been sliding through the mud for hours who thought they could waltz right up in front of our group as soon as the bugle player began his call to post for the biggest race of the day year.  Oh, no they didn't!!  The New Yorker in me came right out and promptly put those folks in their place much to the chagrin of my more mild mannered family.  Minutes later, we saw those horses for the split second they whizzed by our 2 inch viewing window between a fence post and a security station though.  And that made everything worth it!  However, you'll never catch me in the infield again.  If another Derby is in my cards, I'll have a (preferably covered) seat in the grandstands!

Have you ever been to my old Kentucky home?

Literally, My Old Kentucky Home...

Do you have any questions about things to do or places to visit in KY?

Andrea :)

#MarriedMaitlands - TEN months!

I can't believe another month has come and gone.  We seem to be getting the hang of this married thing with each passing month!  Summer has been busy, but great for us!  We had some fun date nights this month along with a romantic birthday getaway in the Finger Lakes.  I am looking forward to all the fall holds for us!
 

Date Nights

-Paint Along

-Deception Night with Nonverbal Group
This event was totally random, but we enjoyed it.  The premise was to arrive at a venue set up to resemble a social function.  You mingle around trying to figure out who is lying as you converse.  After an hour or so of conversation with various individuals, the liars are revealed.  It was actually a lot harder than I thought to pin point those not telling the truth!  Fun event!

-Deon Cole at Caroline's

-Red Bulls Game

Movies/Shows

Trainwreck
My Rating: 3 out of 5 stars
 (LeBron gets 5 stars from me though.)
Chris' Rating: 3.5 out of 5 stars

Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time
(Review here.)
My Rating: 4 out of 5 stars
Chris' Rating: 3 out of 5 stars

Vacation
My Rating:  4 out of 5 stars
Chris' Rating: 3.5 out of 5 stars

Traveled

-We celebrated my birthday with a weekend getaway to the Finger Lakes!
Here are the recaps of Day 1, the Castle, and Day 2.

-I was in Philly for an overnight work trip and saw a couple of classy Eagles!

-I spent a weekend in Vegas celebrating a fabulous and fun bride-to-be!

Notable Events

-Halfway through the TV series Parenthood via Netflix.  Awesome show!

-Enjoyed Miracle Treat Day with a blizzard at Dairy Queen!

-Celebrated Dave's birthday at the beer garden in Astoria.  Neat spot!

Andrea :)

Saturday States: Ohio

As Kentuckians, Ohio is that neighbor you just take for granted.  We've been there SO many times throughout the years, but below you'll find a few of the highlights...

Ohio

State Nickname: The Buckeye State

Years of Family Trip: 1993, 2004, 2009

Cities Visited: Cincinnati, Sandusky

Can't Miss Tourist Attractions:

Reds Game (1993)

King's Island (1993)

While I can't recall these particular trips to the Reds Game or King's Island, I do recall others as I got older.  King's Island always made for a great road trip destination!  And you really can't beat a good baseball game in the summertime, right?

Bengals Game (2004)

On the other hand, the Battle of Ohio game we all attended is etched in my mind...mostly because my beloved Bengals fell to lowly Cleveland that day...ugh!!  My brother, Jordan, is a Browns fan so we have a lot of fun talking smack to each other before this match-up each year!  I'm not sure what he was thinking when he decided to root for the Browns instead of becoming part of Who Dey Nation!!

Cedar Point (2009)

A Dream Fulfilled

When McKinley graduated from high school, he requested a celebratory family trip to Cedar Point. We've never been much on denying the baby of the family what he wants so we all planned to convene on the roller coaster capital of the world (I was already living in NYC; Jordan and Jen were married) and make his newly graduated dream come true!  Great memories of this fun trip!

Have you ever been to Ohio?  

What do you suggest checking out there?

Andrea :)

Mini of the Month: August

To be honest, I wasn't thrilled when I learned this month's mini was Boston Cream.  Ugh!  Doesn't even sound appealing to me. On the other hand, Chris was quick to mention it was his donut of choice as a kid.  I was shocked since this favorite New Yorker of mine despises all things Boston, but that's a post for another day.

Today, we're focused on the Boston Cream mini. With standard yellow cake and chocolate frosting, its Bavarian cream stuffing and white drizzle topping really work together to give it some flavor.  Regardless, this cupcake was pretty basic.  It didn't have a lot to offer, but I wasn't as disappointed as I expected originally.  
 

Do you like Boston Cream?

Andrea :)

The Fall Film Challenge!

Watching a good movie can't be beat. You know the feeling...when the acting is on point, the story totally has you captivated, and the score is running through your head days later.  There are very few things I enjoy more than some quality time in front of the big screen!  And if you've been around here very long at all then you know I spend FAR too much money at the theater during Oscar season and always post my picks to see how I compare with the Academy.  You can imagine my delight when I saw that Jenn over at Quirky Pickings had posted a Fall Film Challenge! I immediately starting thinking of which movies I could use to fit each category!  I am SO excited to start watching on September 1!  Here's my final list:    

one. any set in new york city. 

A Most Violent Year

two. any incorporating hot air balloons in the story.

Around the World in Eighty Days

three. any that features a child as the main character.
 Annie (2014)

four. any disney film.

The Great Mouse Detective
 

five. any set in egypt OR have an egyptian character OR star an egyptian actor/actress.

Exodus: Gods and Kings
 

six. a close friend or family member's favorite film.

Scent of a Woman
 

seven. any with the word great in the title.

The Great White Hype

eight. any starring harrison ford. 

American Graffiti
 

nine. any that features an idiot as the main character.

Dumb and Dumber To
 

ten. any mentioned in levis strauss' list: denim in the oscars: a look at jeans in cinema.

No Country for Old Men
 

eleven. a film about a knight.

King Arthur
 

twelve. a love story.

The Longest Ride
 

thirteen. a movie about something miraculous. 

Noah

fourteen. a film starring an actor/actress with the same first name as yours.

Loser (Andrea Martin)

fifteen. a film about the Olympics.

Foxcatcher
 

sixteen. a film on time magazine's list: the top ten newspaper movies.

All the President's Men
 

seventeen. a movie with a question in the title.

What's the Worst That Could Happen?
 

eighteen. any film with a score of ninety percent or greater on rotten tomatoes.

Parenthood

nineteen. a film about a superhero.

Superman Returns

twenty. any film with subtitles.

The Diving Bell and the Butterfly
 

twenty-one. any incorporating unicorns in the story.

Harold and Kumar Escape From Guantonamo Bay
 

twenty-two. a film about a personal victory.

The Judge
 

twenty-three. a film with black or white in the title.

White Chicks

twenty-four. any set in a country you would most like to visit.

The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel

twenty-five. a film set in a zoo.

We Bought a Zoo

 

Andrea :)